Maybe this is just life, but most of the time it sucks.
One day you wake up and realize that you have barely any friends. You complain and complain, where does it get you? No where. You could have the biggest heart anyone has ever seen, always putting people before yourself, always forgetting you deserve happiness too.
When I was younger, I was angry. I don’t know why, I just was. I told the love of my life when I was a freshman in high school, that I could not handle the sight of him, so I was going to uproot my whole life so I wouldn’t be hurt. I told my dad the same thing. I wanted to leave this life, this shitty ass life I was living, to live with the mother whom I have no idea who she is. So my dad sent me to Canada, two weeks later I was ready to come home, right after that gut feeling of being home-sick my brother drowned and was dead for five minutes, I pulled him out of the water. I pulled his lifeless body, out. After that, all I could think was life is beautiful, and we should be grateful for it. To this day, I still am not happy.
I am so angry. Angry with myself. Angry with both my parents. Angry at the world.
You believe that life is such a beautiful thing. You sit there and want to believe it is. To those who have never seen the difficulties of growing up poor, while you make fried dough because you don’t have anything else in the house, pretending that it will get better. Or growing up without a mom, because she left you and your sister to grow up to have a better life. While you sit in your house with candles lit because for the second month in a row you have no electricity, so you have to take your showers at the school.
I grew up hating the world. I have let one person in. One person. And he is not even here anymore, he left you so he could start a family with someone whom he barely knows. How do you recover?
You try and stay positive, yet everything around you just gets worse. Your body starts failing you. You realize you may never have kids because you create too much testosterone and you are a woman. You grow facial hair and try to conceal it, but it doesn’t ever work because it just grows again, and then you start growing chest hairs, and it in other places. While your ovaries grow cysts.
I want to believe I am a good person, I volunteer, I help my grandmother, whom didn’t want to believe in Christmas anymore because of her husband passing 7 years ago. I do what I can. I make sure everyone around me is happy. I have always used my birthday/christmas money to get other people presents because I want to make sure everyone has a present, because I would rather see the smiles on their faces from my money they give me then have money. Yet I am so angry that I cant love, I cant be happy, I cant do what I want in life, because I didn’t ever grow up to know that person.
I grew up, growing up. Taking care of myself. Yes my dad did what he could and he is my best friend, but the little things in life suck. I just want to be happy. To let people in. To see happiness again. All I do is push people away. How do you grow up not knowing who you are? How do you grow up resenting everything you’ve ever been around? I mean, how can you grow up so badly and not let anyone in and yet, you are the happiest person you know.